How’s Your Networking Coming Along?

One year ago (wow, practically to the day!), I shared my perspective on networking with veteran wedding professionals.  I called them “stars”.  Have you met with the vendors in your community to get to know them since then?  If you haven’t, shame on you!

If you have, good job!  You are well on your way to creating a wonderful network of support as your business grows.

For those of you that haven’t grown your network, today I challenge you to make a list of all the vendors in town you would like to meet.  Next to each person’s name or business, write down their phone number, email address and physical address (if they have a store front) and create a timeline to reach out to them.  Make a commitment to touch base with at least two vendors a week…whether it’s by email, hand written “hello” note or a phone call.

Make a date to meet for coffee or lunch.  Learn about their business and who their ideal client is.  Share your story as well, but make sure you make the meeting more about them…not you.  Remember…they need to learn who you are before they will know, like and trust you.  Once this happens, why wouldn’t they refer business to you?

Now get out there!  And if you need help with what to say and how to “present” your business, reach out to me…I’ll help you come up with something that sizzles! :)

Until next time…

Aspire to Plan!

Sharpen Your Armor: Education is Power Vol. 2

Once again, I went crawling for knowledge tonight…here’s what I found.  Remember…education is power!

Love this blog…you will too, if you’re a newbie to blogging.

Looking to try public speaking soon?  Here’s how one of my favorite designers gets it done.

Why SEO is important…

Don’t lose your soul, trying to grow.

Until next time…
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Sharpen Your Armor: Education is Power

Here are some interesting articles I found last night. Education is power!

15 Internet Annoyances, and How to Fix Them from AllBusiness.com

Gmail to drop IE6 support this year

The Simple Math of Blog Comments

Is Brazil Designs Next Superpower?

Who Killed Qwerty?

Until next time…

Aspire to Plan!

New Lead? What Now?

You’ve worked very hard on your website. It’s perfect. The copy is crystal clear; your readers will know who you are, why you do what you do and who you do it for. They know what you offer and how to get in touch with you when they read your call to action.

You receive an email or phone call from a potential client and….GULP!! You have NO idea what to say or what to do next.

One of the first things aspiring wedding planners need to work on when building their business is their operating process. An operating process is a way of doing something…the official course of action when something that happens in your business. Writing down the steps and executing them the same way each time, creates consistency and efficiency; two very good things in business.

One of the processes I think should be nailed down first is the customer service process…sometimes called, “the client experience”. Planning for and implementing the steps you take in handling every potential client contact is key to turning them into an actual client. That first “touch” means everything! You know the saying, “first impressions…”? (Your website, ad space, brochure, etc. is really the first step but that’s another post for another day).

You must get this right, so here are a few questions to get you started:

How/why do brides contact you?

What do they ask you?

What are your answers to those questions?

How will you document these calls/emails?

Are there any documents you need to send them in response to these questions? What are they?

What is the next step for these documents?

If you are expecting any of these documents back, what do you do with them?

What is your follow up procedure for these calls/emails?

How can you improve your client experience in this process?

How can you streamline all of these steps in your operations so that you have more time for the “glam” and creative projects?

Take the time now to setup systems and processes for your business operations BEFORE you get swamped with clients.  You’ll be more professional in your approach, it will save you time and money AND it will allow you to delegate tasks to others in the future.  You know…that executive assistant you’ve dreamed about?

Until next time…

Aspire to Plan!

Winning Tips On Being an Intern

Its official! You’ve been chosen to be an intern for a wedding planner in your area. You’re probably nervous, excited, apprehensive and confident all rolled up into one…am I right? No worries…its perfectly normal because you may not know what to expect or how to make the most of the experience. Today’s article will help.

I’m going to share with you all the things I tell my assistants when they begin working for me. My goal is for them to be successful because if they are successful then I’m successful…and that means my clients will have a successful wedding day!

The following 7 tips will help you whether you are in the office for a day with a planner or if you are fortunate enough to assist on the wedding day.

Before You Go, Put Yourself In the Planner’s Shoes
Being able to intern with a wedding planner gives you a peek into their world. It is a privileged and personal thing. Many planners have spent years shaping and molding their business and personal image. When you intern with someone you get to see wedding planning from a vantage point that many are unable to see. Conduct yourself in a way that you would expect someone who was interning with you to conduct themselves. Who knows…you may be able to return the favor one day.

Determine What you Want From the Experience
Do you want to learn how to stage the wedding party properly or perhaps you would like to learn how to create the perfect time line? Deciding what you want to learn and communicating that to the wedding planner will make your experience much more educational.

Be Professional at All Times
Make sure to ask what you should wear. Make sure it is something professional and tasteful…no skin tight pants or short skirts, please. Hair and nails groomed, wear comfortable shoes…think 12 hours on your feet…and your jewelery needs to be understated as well. You don’t want to be jingling during the ceremony or during the toasts.

Show respect for the Planner, the clients, their guests and the other vendors. Turn off your cell phone or put it on vibrate. Show up BEFORE you’re scheduled to arrive; smiling, standing up straight and really showing an eagerness to learn.

Go Above and Beyond
Be sure to always ask the planner what you can do to help. Don’t stand around and wait for the planner to tell you what task to do next. Wedding Day can be hectic sometimes and the planner won’t always have time to direct you in each and every task. No task is too small or too large…always pitch to help with a smile. If in doubt always ask, but part of being a good planner is the ability to think fast on your feet.

Ask Questions
It’s ok to ask questions. Let’s face it…you don’t know what you don’t know. Sometimes people won’t ask a question because of the fear of appearing as if they don’t know what they’re doing. If you knew it all you wouldn’t be an intern, right? Just be careful about when and where you ask the questions. If the wedding planner is with the client, wait until you can speak to the planner alone. You don’t want the client to think the planner’s assistant isn’t on point. Remember…you are representing the planner and her company at all times.

Follow Up!
Be sure to ask the planner for feedback about your internship. You can’t grow if you don’t know. Ask where you can improve and also ask where you shined…and don’t beat yourself up. Ask the planner how you can do better next time.

And last but definitely not least…

Say Thank You!
Don’t forget to send the planner a nice, hand written thank you card. Trust me…it goes a LONG way in the cool points department!

Until next time…

Aspire to Plan!

Are you prepared for your initial consultations?

I remember my very first initial consultation with a bride. I was very nervous and wasn’t sure if I was ready to conduct the meeting like a pro.

I had a questionnaire I created to gather information as I spoke with the bride, a copy of my business brochure, business card along with a letter of introduction all placed nice and neat in a pocket folder for her. As an added touch, I presented her with a bouquet of six roses in my company’s signature colors. I was ready!

The meeting went well…I think…but she didn’t hire me. I think it had more to do with her than with me, but I know I gave it my 100%. I was prepared, I offered her something unique in the form of the bouquet and I looked and conducted myself professionally.

Are YOU ready for your initial consultation’s?

Here are 5 key tips to help you have a successful meeting:

1. Dress to Impress! Make sure your outfit is stylish but professional. First impressions go a long way in this business and you want your potential client to see you as a planner who is worth the fees you charge.

2. Try to make sure the meeting place is appropriate. If you are fortunate enough to have your own office to meet with clients, GREAT! Most independent wedding planners meet with potential clients out in the community or at the client’s home. Wherever you decide to meet, make sure it’s comfortable and has enough space for you to show your portfolio and to write notes if needed.

3. Have plenty of business cards and brochures/marketing collateral handy. Not all initial consultations will happen according to the script you’ve planned. If you don’t get a chance to describe your services, you should have something available to them that does. At the minimum you should have a good supply of business cards with you so that each person the bride brings with them has your card.

4. Have a client information form or questionnaire prepared so nothing is left out. Some planners do OK with conducting their initial consults with nothing more than a pen and pad in hand. This is great if you’re seasoned and remember all of the essential questions to ask. For planners just starting out it’s a good idea to create a form with all the questions you want to ask your potential bride. This helps keep the meeting on track so you don’t end up rambling. It also shows that you are organized and on top of your game!

5. If the bride hires you on the spot that’s great! Make sure to have a blank contract or at least a blank letter of agreement on hand until you can prepare a proper contract and proposal. If not, be sure to communicate clear expectations for follow up. I prefer to ask the client to contact me on a mutually agreed specific date and time.

This strategy puts the responsibility on the client so they feel obligated to contact you no matter what their decision ends up being. If they don’t call you on the agreed upon day and time, call them and tell them you set aside time to take their call and was concerned when you didn’t hear from them. Works like a charm!

Always prepare to be successful for each and every initial consult you book. Your potential clients will have no choice but to stand up and take notice. And hopefully, they’ll hire you too!

And if you need more ideas or want to brainstorm some ideas with me, I’m always here to support you. Just give me a call and we’ll see if I can help!

Aspire to Plan!

"Aspiring" Question of the Week – How Should I Price My Services?

This is one of those questions I get asked all of the time and the answers are always different, depending on where the planner operates their business.

Pricing is a very complex animal. Several factors should be considered including:

-Operating Expenses
-Expertise and Education
-Competitors Pricing
-Market Tolerance

I had a call a few weeks ago from an aspiring planner who needed some advice on how to price a customized service for a non-wedding client. We talked about what she charged for slightly similar services and what the customized job entailed. We also talked about what her market would tolerate and what other planners in her area were charging.

We also talked about how she could overcome objections to the price, because half the battle is in the negotiating…but that’s another subject for another day!

Here is what she wrote to me after using the strategies we came up with:

“Hey Wendy, thanks for the advice last week. I increased what I was going to ask for the job and received it. Thanks for setting me straight on fees and giving me the confidence. Hope to meet you in person one day soon. You’re a doll!”

This made my day!!

How have YOU come up with your pricing strategy? Have you considered what expenses it takes to run your business? Have you taken into account what your market will tolerate? Have you priced yourself so that you are in line with your expertise?

“Aspiring” minds want to know! :)

Aspire to Plan!

The Simple Plan Workshop

I’ll be speaking at The Simple Plan Workshop in Seattle Washington in November! So excited!

Visit the Sage Wedding Pros website for more info!

Also!

Our next Q & A and special topic call will take place on Tuesday, September 22, 2009. Stay tuned for more details soon!

Aspire to Plan!

Which Legal Structure Is the Right One for My Business?

DBA? LLC? LLP? INC?

There are several different things to think about when starting a business. One very important decision is what legal structure you want to operate under. It will dictate lots of other things about your business…especially when it comes to money and taxes.

There are several different ways to set-up your business. Each has their own set of rules, advantages, and disadvantages. Here is a quick overview of business structures to consider.

* Sole proprietorship: You should only have this type of business if it is just you that is running your business and is responsible for its success or failure. That doesn’t mean you can’t hire people to do different parts of your business, but if something goes wrong, or someone else doesn’t hold their end of the bargain, you will be solely responsible for the business and business losses, including putting your personal assets at risk.

* Partnership: Unlike a sole proprietor, any good or bad consequences are taken by both partners, not just you. This allows each partner to be equally responsible for the success of the business. However, this also means that if someone else doesn’t put in an equal amount of effort or makes a mistake you are still responsible. There are limited liability partnerships, or LLPs that decrease this risk.

* Corporation: A corporation is generally what we think of when we hear big business. This is a company that operates separately from any specific person. It pays its own taxes and no one specific is personally financially responsible. This arrangement is beneficial, but difficult and expensive to start and maintain.

* LLC, or Limited Liability Company/Corporation: This is a newer type of business structure, but it is becoming more and more popular. This is a hybrid between a partnership and a corporation. It offers some of the financial protection of a corporation, but is much easier to set up and maintain. It is ideal for smaller businesses that are looking for an opportunity to expand. It also only needs one person to start, unlike a partnership, but does require other people to be involved with running and maintaining the company.

Choosing the right set-up depends on how many people are involved, how much trust you are willing to put in each other, the amount of risk involved in the business and how much you are willing to take responsibility for, as well as the financial and time resources you are able to devote to the company. It may also depend on the laws surrounding these arrangements, which can vary depending on where you live.

When starting a small business on your own, a sole proprietorship is generally the way to go; however, if you have more resources, looking into a limited liability arrangement will help protect your legal and financial situation in the future.

Choosing your business structure is not an easy decision. It takes time and requires careful planning. It’s also a good idea to get some help. When forming a partnership, corporation, or LLC, each person involved should secure their own advice from an accountant, attorney, or both. This will help ensure that everyone is being represented fairly and knows what is going on in the business relationship.

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How to Negotiate Successfully

Negotiation can give many people the willy’s! (Wow…haven’t used that term in a long time!) Just thinking about it can cause anxiety, butterfly tummy, etc. Negotiation, however, can be fun – not to mention profitable – when done right.

As a wedding planner, this is one of the services many of your clients will need you to be an expert at. It’s one of the ways you can help your client save money so it pays to be a successful negotiator. Just think of the wonderful testimonial you get!

Here’s how:

Step One – Become Comfortable
Once you’re truly comfortable with negotiation, you’re better able to think outside of the box and to be creative with possibilities and solutions. Removing fear and discomfort helps you look at all sides, not just what you have to offer but what your potential partner has to offer as well.

Step Two – Be Prepared
Decide in advance, what you want to walk away with and try to determine what the other party wants to walk away with. It is likely that somewhere there can be an overlap or a give and take. Successful negotiation happens when you know exactly what is important and what you can live without – it’s an opportunity to collaborate and build a mutually beneficial relationship.

It’s also important to know what you’re going to do if the two of you are unable to come to an agreement.

Step Four (Oops…Step Three) – Listen
Listening, really is the key to a successful negotiation. Rather than heading into it with a aggressive stance, be ready and willing to listen to what the other party needs. There may be some points that you were unaware of. If the other party can tell that you’re really taking their concerns to heart, they may be more willing to work with you.

Step Five (Oops…Step Four) – Practice
Your mom was right, practice does make perfect. Practice negotiating and you’ll not only become more comfortable with it, you’ll get better. Consider every communication you’re involved in as a mini negotiation. Evaluate what you want to get out of it, what your partner wants to get out of it, and how you’ll both come to a mutual agreement.

Negotiating can be a powerfully positive experience for everyone involved. When you look at it as collaboration rather than a competition, it becomes an enjoyable experience. There really are win-win situations out there just waiting for you.

Until next time…

Aspire to Plan!